Last Saturday Night was Grace Community Church’s annual Autumn Supper . This is a great formal evening consisting of a fantastic meal followed by a guest speaker , we all try to invite family and friends who are not yet committed to the Lord. This years guest speaker was Robin Oake former, police commissioner and Christian. Robin’s son Stephen Oake ,also a Christian and anti terrorist police officer was murdered during an anti terror raid in Manchester where he was stabbed by an alleged terror suspect. He was just 40 , married with children.
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How can anyone forgive the killer of someone so dear to them, that person who rips them savagely away from you and their loved ones. A life time without them.
As a Christian myself i find it so difficult to get my head around. What strong unshakable faith you must need.
I know i could forgive someone if they say, told lies of me, but for murdering a loved one??
But the bible teaches us that sin is sin no matter what the action is , SIN IS SIN. Who are we to judge others and condemn them when we ourselves blindly sin every day of our lives.
We have been forgiven by the grace of God , so we to should through God forgive those who Sin against us. We should not judge others only God can judge.
What if the person we need to forgive is not a believer?
I have found that prayer is one of the best ways to break down the wall of forgiveness in my heart. When I begin to pray for the person who has wronged me, God gives me new eyes to see and a new heart to care for that person. As I pray, I start to see that person as God sees them, and I realize that he or she is precious to the Lord. I also see myself in a new light, just as guilty of sin and failure as the other person. I too am in need of forgiveness. If God did not withhold his forgiveness from me, why should I withhold my forgiveness from another?
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.
Is it okay to feel anger and want justice for the person we need to forgive?
This question presents another reason to pray for the person we need to forgive. We can pray for God to deal with the injustices, for God to judge the person’s life, and then we can leave that prayer at the altar. We no longer have to carry the anger. Although it is normal for us to feel anger toward sin and injustice, it is not our job to judge the other person in their sin.
“Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven;
When Jesus says, “Do not judge, and you will not be judged,” Jesus is not saying that we must not judge people so that people do not judge us. Jesus is not teaching some sort of relativism that we just let people believe what they want to believe so that no one is judging each other. Jesus is talking about God judging others. Do not judge others and you will not be judged by God. Do not condemn others and you will not be condemned by God. Forgive others and you will be forgiven by God.
Previously, Jesus taught to do to others as you want them to do to you. Now Jesus teaches this principle: Do to others what you want God to do to you.Treat others, not only how you want them to treat you, but also how you want God to treat you. Jesus is not teaching that we can avoid the day of final judgment if we somehow be sure not to judge other people. No one can avoid the day of judgment. All must stand before the judgment seat of Christ.